I don`t get guys thinking that women are trying to catch them... are they fish or something?. Good or bad boys need to be clear about one thing, we don´t like chasing you or pressuring you, it would be nice if you did things on your own, or you pushed yourself hard enough that you would not need us to push you. But you want a girl to motivate you and move you enough for you to push yourself and when you have her the phrase "I feel pressured, I feel caged, I feel pushed"starts to come out like whining from a grandmother when you didn´t wash the dishes.
Commitment is a big word and it is meant for big people, and I don´t mean adults per se, because I have always been committed to a lot and fight for it, push myself to get it and never back down. It is about who I am, some people are born this way some grow into it, either way get down your high horse, if you want to be with someone you will do what it takes even if its hard, if it is too hard core for you then maybe it was not meant for you. But the pressure is on you... us loving you or wanting you near is just love and want but there´s no pressure for you to be there if you don´t want it.
But what´s true is: It´ll always has to be a two-way thing and two people working hard on it. If not there won´t be a chance of forever, because in every relationship you can call it friendship, family, husband and wife, boyfriend, even talking about business both parties need to give in order for it to work it will never work if it is a one way thing.
Just thinking out loud,
J.V
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